“Why are you so Selfish…” Welcome to the inevitable statement that you will invariably hear throughout your dating career when dating American Women. I have heard it, you have heard it, quite frankly 85 percent or more of us have heard it, and this is coming from a guy who once spent more than 1000.00 a month just to keep her at par. Advertising spells it out best in America, the man is in trouble, and he better do something quick to make her happy, or all hell and havoc will bestow upon him from which he can not recover. I don’t care the race or nationality of the female, this comes from a sickness known strictly as Entitlement. The worst part is, that most men including myself (at one time) are dumb enough to think that this is normal, because the media has brain washed us to think all men must go through this. Long gone are the days where men and women split responsibilities in relationships, and gender roles were defined to keep a well running engine long lasting and enjoyable. What happened? Controlling propaganda was passed and advertised via commercial television and the internet which finally became an accepted social sickness. This competition amongst the sexes became so fierce that seemingly the top 5 percent of men would flourish and the rest would succumb to a newly accepted order controlled specifically through sexual domination. There are always exceptions to the rules, but bottom line is we ourselves made the mistake of allowing this to happen. Point. Asian cultures do not have the same political correctness in Asia as we have in America. Asian cultures have an extremely homogenous society and lines are drawn and rarely crossed because of their cultural strength. The divorce rate in Asian countries is much lower, and a shunned practice. Men and women have very definitive roles, and because of this, they…….get along and stay together without the sickness we engulf here in the Western World. I am not anti-American, I love my country and all that it has done for me, but I also remember it as a different place socially, from growing up in the 60’s under my parents whom had definitive roles and stuck to the guidelines of a successful relationship. It is tough to make boundaries and say don’t cross them, because we learned somewhere that this is a limitation in our freedoms as human beings, so groups are created to “protect” us from these walls. American culture tears down these walls for “freedoms” and now live without the proper “proven” structures for matrimony. How many divorce stories do you hear where the woman got completely fucked over and lost everything… the kids, the house, the bank account. Why is it that woman are always looking to land a husband, and the man is always putting off the wedding. Why is the popularity of the prenuptial agreement post 1985 and exercised mostly by men. How come the majority of men have friends that are only men, and the majority of women have friends that are only men in America? American Women have been give complete social power, and are unwilling to share with their running mates. Please…. Please… Please… don’t label me as someone whom has a distaste for women, as I absolutely adore them, just not the infected ones, and by infected I mean most American women, especially when visiting the west coast, as I have an admiration to an extent for women in the Midwest. When it comes to looks both sexes can be quite hypocritical, but attitudes and roles have been scrambled leaving men sexually frustrated and desperate. When a woman protects the honor of another woman she is doing so because she reflects the given affliction upon herself and recognizes the proverbial “capsizing” of the ship. I had brought my girlfriend from Thailand to the states for a wedding, this girl loves to take care of me, as long as I provide food and shelter and love, she will do more than even I am comfortable with in showing her gratitude. While at the wedding she was approached five or six times by other American women to please not be “so giving” as it makes the rest of us look bad, or “we have a good thing going here in America, don’t fuck it up” The women at my table did not stop there, they told her that while they liked me as a guy, and a caregiver, that she should set her sights higher, as she was so beautiful that “settling” for me would not be wise, and beauty alone was all that was needed for success in America. The girl I met in Thailand was 105 pounds washboard stomach and 25 years of age. I agree, with the women, in America, she could do a lot better, because better here is money and the top 5 percent. In her country they simply found men that could provide, and loved them… lost concepts here. Men also did not take shit, and hold strong to their values as Men, and only compromise logic not insanity. I chose her on her wit, attitude and personality, because beauty was a dime a dozen in Thailand. Wouldn’t it be nice if American women did the same. They say all the worlds pleasures will kill you because pleasure at such kept levels will devour you, and I do believe this, as so many American women are so unhappy. So if I can say one positive thing “socially” about being an American male, is that I can only go up, for I have lived at the bottom, yet I do not feel indifferent from my American female counterpart as to what I can become when spoiled at such high levels. Be careful with your new powers abroad, don’t turn these powers to the abuse you once preached against.