Finding a girl overseas is fairly easy.   However, finding the right girl for a long term relationship is a whole new ball of wax.  The internet allows us to find girls in Asia or anywhere else for that matter through various web dating platforms.  I personally use this link for dating in Asia, but there are many other reputable ones as well,  However, things to keep in mind before going overseas and getting fucked over like this expat who obviously trusted some chinese girl, that she would meet him when he arrived.

A Poor Young Girls Journey

If you meet a girl online 20 years younger than you, it certainly can work, but here is why it most likely will fail.  First, if she is in her 20-26 range, she will most likely be very insecure, have little or no income, and is willing to say and do anything to land you.  She might even be telling you the truth, and that you are the man of her dreams, and she has fallen in love with you.   This age group is notorious for spelling out their perfect scenario, the only problem is that she will not hold onto these same ideals after 6 months to a year of dating you.  She will quickly become spoiled, and not fear the consequences if you bring her back to your country.  In short, your done, unless you are extremely wealthy.  If thats the case, the sex will stop, but the supposed love for you will be faked until she finally divorces you and gets half.  PRENUP IS A MUST.  Remember that your not a fool because you couldn’t spot a fake.  She was never a fake. She is a twenty something looking for a fairy tale dream, unfortunately that dream ends rather quickly, and all of your training and advice leads her to find another man further down the road.  In asia your old after 28, if you bring her back to America the rules of western civilization will quickly become realized within a 1-3 year period, and she will ultimately change.  You were not conned. She simply learned she can do better, and when a woman understands that her feelings ultimately fail her and the sex stops, and the mind wanders.

Education is Key

Make sure she is educated.  Sounds simple, but if your to find a stunner, most of them overseas come as farm girls, whom have no idea about Western culture and education.  They are a dream at first.  They cook and clean and have sex whenever you want.  However, this girl falls heavy for marketing.  She will think you are using her unless you buy her every thing she wants.  She has no concept of money, and demands a BMW or Mercedes the moment she comes into your country.  She thinks all westerners are beyond reason in wealth, and thinks your just being cheap by not following her demands.  She will find a rich guy, use him up, and never learn.  You would think they would be grateful for you picking her off the dirt floor she used to sleep on, and always having food on the plate, but without education, trust me, she will always take EVERYTHING for granted.If she is not educated, year number 2 of your marriage or relationship will frustrate both of you.

Her Age Matters

I can’t reiterate enough how important it is to keep the age difference within 10 years.  However, if she is 38 or older in Asia,  you can up it to 20 years, as a 38 year old in Asia is considered an old lady.  The best value for a 45 year old man is a 35 year old woman,  She is not going anywhere when she picks you, she has been there and done that, so you can rest assured that as long as she is educated you will be doing great, give yourself an A+ for keeping it realistic.

Spend Time Wisely

The most important thing you could do is to sign up at a dating site meant for research,  What??? Yes that’s right.  If you use Cupid Media, you will gain access to 1000’s of single woman all looking for an expat for a relationship.  Once you do, especially on the Thai or Filipino dating sites you will receive hundreds of emails from available single women.  Take your time and email them back.  Pick 2 or 3 that you can steadily talk to and narrow your search down to 3 girls that you would love to meet when you visit.  I have never been stood up once in Thailand or the Philippines off of Cupid Media, its that strong!  You have so many choices, be sure to center your selection based on Age and Education and not on the sappy romantic shit that they eventually will say to you.  It takes time to put together a meeting with the right girl, so be picky, because on these sites YOU are the DEMAND and they are the SUPPLY.  I like Cupid media the best because you can leave skype addresses and emails without being censored.  Talk on Skype eye to eye.  Show her your NOT always about sex, a matter of fact never talk about sex, or you will fit in with 99 percent of the guys they previously talked to.  If you can successfully become friends with them, you will have a good girl.  The rules change overseas, friends first does not lock you in the friend zone, because they are hunting you, not vice versa.