Supply and demand – Women of Thailand or Bar Girls
Supply and demand in Thailand is simple. When you walk into a local bar in the Western world there is immediately a visible ratio. The first thing you notice is how many women are in the bar. You then look at the competition. Even though males are particularly not interested in the given competition, we do factor it in. In Thailand, you will never understand nor appreciate your competition, especially in a bar girl arena. Let me give you an example. My first trip to Thailand, allotted me so much attention that I pretty much thought whatever I wanted I could get.This was an amazing ego boost, however, it’s absolutely not true. The looks and smiles you receive in America, when a girl is attracted to you, are very similar to the looks and smiles you receive in Thailand, from a bar girl who’s just being polite. However your confidence increases as well as your ego and you believe the opposite. One of the beautiful things about being a male, is that when we look in the mirror, we see something better than there actually is. The same goes with Thailand, and I was about to get my first lesson in how I was wrong. I walked into a bar I saw a beautiful girl and immediately I thought I’m in a start talking to this girl. We had a good conversation, another gentleman an older one no threat detected from him also jumped into our conversation. He was around 65, overweight, and bald. Throughout our conversation I felt he was helping me out, but really he was competing for the girl just like I was. When I left to go to the bathroom, as I was walking back, I noticed the old man and the bar girl, left without even saying goodbye. I had lost, and she was 22 and beautiful. The moral is, you just don’t know, and that young men,, are often viewed as temporary, and not that serious. The bar girls, have a word for this, known as “Butterfly”. “Bar girls” work the bar for money, just like a stripper works the bar for money in America.
The differences are major though. The stripper personality lacks well, in simple terms “personality”. The bar girl comes across as a nice girl from a small village, whom will entertain you all night and the next day, she seemingly is just happy with your company, for what you would pay on a night out with your girlfriend eating at Apple Bee’s or less. However, this is not real, but a good way to get some insight on the Thai personality. Thai women, whom hold an education and a professional career are a much better picture of reality. I find these girls on Camfrog, and Thai Love links. I am certain there are other mediums you can use, but these two fit my personal needs. Camfrog is video chat and allows me to meet up with a selection of women every day in the Thai rooms, and I can shuffle through who fits my needs. My only problem with Camfrog, is that these girls quickly learn the game, and have as many as 10-20 online boyfriends, knowing that only 2-3 will ever meet with them. Their desperation to find a man consumes their time and efforts, and when they finally get a good one, then what? They miss the “romantic” period they discovered online with all the new men they met after the “moonlighting” effect has worn off with you. However, if your going to meet a girl who is 23 and beautiful and completes your every desire, it might be well worth the risk.