Staying true to my word that I was going to let it all go this year, we finally scheduled that trip to enjoy the benefits of adult travel in Jamaica. A friendly couple we had met at the SF Citadel told us about resorts where you could be romantic and keep it private or not private – your choice. We were thirsty for their stories and listened vehemently as they described the scenery, the people and genuine friendships they had made. It sounded like a dream; a dream we both deserved and wanted to make a reality. I was tired of feeling trapped in these clothes and in this society. I wanted to get away from it all and cool my head, release the tension. No work and no kids, just play, play, play in the pursuit of pleasure. We were going to get away from societal pressures and do things our way.…