Thailand in Thai is merely a colloquialism to describe a Thai persons culture through Western world eyes. If you start dating Thai women, and it happens in Thailand, you will hear this familiar saying and it will start something like this “I will pick you up at airport” these are words of warning, you are speaking with an experienced Thai girl. These words have a story behind them, one that you will never find out, what is all too familiar for the Thai girl in Thailand. In any online venture, when a man meets a girl, they eventually get to that point where they want to see each other. Most Thai women do not have the appropriate paperwork to visit the Western world. Guess what? That means, you must visit them. When the appropriate time occurs they will request your itinerary, and finally say “I will pick you up at airport”.

Thai Girls, how to choose?  Why should this be alarming, because she has learned that she does not pick you up the airport, you will quickly discover your value in the land of Thailand in Thai. It truly takes 1 to 3 hours to discover, that you are in charge. Don’t get me wrong, Thai women, have developed infectious personalities for survival, because beauty in Thailand, is a dime a dozen. Walk your streets in your local community, and see how many 100 to 105 pound beautiful women check you out. I guarantee regardless of your weight size or physical looks, just by being white you will achieve more looks in one day in Thailand than a full year in your hometown. This isn’t because your gods gift to Earth, this is because you represent a new life, as a multimillionaire in the Western world represents a new life to beautiful women there. She needs to pick you up at the airport, because if she does not, all her work online, will be for not. You will be whisked off to an area, that is most likely “farang free” or no tourists, where she can control her competition. You’ll be treated like a king, fed and bathed, and groomed for a future engagement. Good luck, because even after reading this, it’s most likely the best you’ve ever been treated. However, “I will pick you up at airport” speaks of an experienced girl. She has her own story, of being burned by too many men. So she has learned the tricks of the trade, and acts accordingly to her studies. So when you find out, that her e-mail box is filled with itineraries, don’t be alarmed, she’s playing the numbers game because going one by one will never get her to her future engagement. Welcome to Thailand in Thai, a place with its own culture and its own rules. Understanding Thailand in Thai culture is the key to comprehending the Thai girl. These women get screwed over so much by our standards, but by theirs I believe it’s a numbers game to hitting the jackpot. This might sound bad towards Thai women, but a Thai girl poignantly pointed out to me one day, that American women had more protective measures.  With Thailand in Thai if you marry you pay a dowry to the family, which in some cases is paid back, and only a portion is kept. This dowry allows the family to know you are for real, and that you can take care of their daughter. In America we must buy her a ring, which usually costs more than the Dowry, and is rarely returned at divorce. In America, women are protected through the means of alimony and child support, Thai women get no protection of this sort. So, are you really at more risk with a Thai girl, do you see why we need our monetary support upfront. The American woman once married can lay back and enjoy the comforts of these financial protection mechanisms, we have no financial protection mechanisms in our country, so we will try and keep you even after marriage. She has a point, if you marry her in Thailand.